If You are….
If your angersome, it means you are spoiled.
If you want things to be given to you, then you want others to do your work.
If you complain without doing, it means you want an easy way out.
If you have no integrity, it means you have never earned respect.
If you are always late with your promises, it means you take things for granted.
If you always argue to win, it’s because you allowed yourself to lose in life.
If you are not concerned about others, then you have been overly self absorbed.
If you don’t wish to change your situation, it’s because you don’t consider others and their despair for you.
If you are arrogant, it’s because others are to be used by you.
If you are intolerant, it’s because you want things only your way.
If you are full of hatred, it’s because you only wish to benefit yourself.
If you always lie, then you innately think others dumb and unworthy.
~Tsem Rinpoche






























































Dear Rinpoche,
This is such a fantastic post. Sometimes, teachings can seem a little vague or too profound to understand, but this rather hits you like a brick wall; there’s no room for a “I wonder what that means…”
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I realised I was/am guilty of some (most) of these things when I felt a slight discomfort in reading through the list. There’s not even room for excuse when you read this list alone, but on the plus side, it does force you to recognise the areas on which work is needed. Sometimes I find myself with the thought that a few mantras and lit candles puts me on a par with Jesus, but on reflection, there’s much work to be done indeed.
Thank you for this post.
Kind regards,
Sandy
Thanks for this short yet simple explaination on why am i feeling in this state of anger that i cannot being able to let them go. My life is in a mess that in choosing religion has become something very confusing for me to reside.
But i do thank you that my journey has brought my soul here to your blog Rinpoche. Another thing that i have no idea change myself in being selfish. I really have no idea how. I have been following through your blog for awhile now but i still unable to bring my eyes to look into this selfishness i have in me.
I hope that this eyes will open one day.
Then again..thanks for this post..
Alda