Real Love…
It’s great to want love, demand love, get love, expect love and just have it..but what do you do when you get it? Just relax, not do your part and expect the love to be one sided. Yes love is unconditional, but it does not mean one gives unconditionally and the other gets only unconditionally. Love is a state where a person truly cares about you for YOU. And when you get that, you should do everything you can being true to yourself of course to reciprocate. I mean c’mon, everyone wants love and peace and the whole nine yards, but you have to give the same. Don’t just take and feel threatened when ppl get tired of just giving while you return love with unfulfilled commitments and empty words. Be loved and love without conditions but with responsibility.
Love is not just a word you use to threaten ppl into silencing them about your bad habits or unfulfilled promises. Love is what should motivate you to do your part too. Love is only unconditional when you don’t put a condition that it is unconditional. We must do our parts. ~Tsem Rinpoche
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Innocent emotion….”When you were a child you found joy in the smallest of things”
Do not blame others but cultivate a spirit of self-help “Do not blame the ship or wind for your inability to progress.. make improvements to your ship fix your helm, learn more about sailing techniques and combine wisdom of those around you”
….Be grateful when things are not going well, when you stumble, or face a barrier that prevents you from going further. It is htn that your eyes will be opened to your flaws and you will be able to correct them?
Dear Riponche, Im a Christian and i wanna thank you for your teachings that really motivates me and help me to move on and getting my life back on track… I just a have a question if you won’t mind why being a hosto or working in a hosto club is considered as a job? they continously hurt people they deceive women by their looks for Money? What kind of people are these? What future lies on these people ? I’m so sorry for questioning you these:-(
Lord Buddha said that one should love everyone from one’s heart. Of course its great to have love, but nonetheless, there are many types of love. In today’s society, for most people, love often comes from desires and feelings. Such kind of love is said to be neither permanent nor deep, and seldom remains forever, as feelings change. One should get love based on profoundity – deep intent and far reaching. To have profound love is to have unconditional love, like our Rinpoche said, “And when you get that, you should do everything you can being true to yourself of course to reciorocate”. Love should not be based on desire, but something that comes out of caring for others, like that between parents and children. Commitment, sacrifice, patient, and trust are some main essentials to make a relationship last. As in the wisdom words of the Dalai Lama, “Love and compassion are the most important, most precious, most powerful and most sacred basic elements supporting our life and happiness. They are the most effective and beneficial driving forces for life”.
respected rinpoche
i found your blog this evening through 1 of my friend and im inspired by your quotes and preachings.i am a bhutanese living in bhutan and i am following budhism and i do some realigious prayer and i do belive in it.i do have a strong belive in love and compassionate.it sound stupid to ask question on such isssues but i belive there is no harm in asking such question.is there harm in loving someone and begging for love.is the attachement of love matters.though we know that love and attachement are not permenent we still have attachment towards it.so i would be very greatful if rinpoche could comment on this.with due respect i thank rinpoche for giving this opportunities to express our own views and share with you.thank you very much…………